One point from psychology about this is the kid has anxiety. Internet has a lot of content so that the kid is overwhelmed by that and forget his/her anxiety temporarily. That is why it is so hard to get rid of it.
So, find some ways to let them release their anxiety is important.
(sorry I don’t have chinese input at my office’s computer)
English is very welcome!
Good point!Sometimes, I think it could be my fault, because I was focusing on working too much, did not pay enough attention on my son. Yes, let them reading a book and then discuss on it together. Enrolling him to a sports club……
By the way, one of the goals of the website is to bring English, Chinese and Japanese speakers together and sharing ideas. I plan to translate comments to other two langauges, what do you think, Kathy?
Too much time on the computer is a growing habit. The reality is that online communication and games are fun, and there are a limited supply on there. Internet play is the encouraged passive time in social groups and even in the schools. The best defense for a parent is to establish computer use rules and utilize a means for your child to succeed at them. You can read this article for more information if you would like:
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2008年05月25日 星期日 at 10:03下午
孩子一定都有玩的天性，找到他户外活动的兴趣点，一定会有成效
2008年05月25日 星期日 at 10:16下午
是呀。现在的孩子和我们过去相比，室外活动真是少多了。电视，游戏，上网，占用了他们大多数课外活动时间。现在的孩子和朋友交往也大多是打电话，发电子信件，网上聊天。真是应该想些办法让孩子们多到室外活动。
2008年05月25日 星期日 at 10:26下午
在固定的时间安排喜欢的户外活动，或是体育运动，像楼主所说的建立一
种条件反射，这样孩子就会自然形成一种习惯。
2008年05月26日 星期一 at 03:24上午
我的外孙以前也很优秀,现在也遇到类似问题!我请他好好总结一下,上学的主要任务完成的怎样?上网的目的首先要加深理解课堂老师讲的内容并予习下一节课的内容,提高课堂听课效率.
2008年05月26日 星期一 at 08:03下午
您还这么关心孙子的教育，我很感动。相信您的孙子不会辜负您的希望。会成为一个优秀的好孩子。
2008年07月08日 星期二 at 03:41下午
So, find some ways to let them release their anxiety is important.
(sorry I don’t have chinese input at my office’s computer)
（对不起，我现在用的计算机不能输中文）
2008年07月08日 星期二 at 04:22下午
Good point!Sometimes, I think it could be my fault, because I was focusing on working too much, did not pay enough attention on my son. Yes, let them reading a book and then discuss on it together. Enrolling him to a sports club……
By the way, one of the goals of the website is to bring English, Chinese and Japanese speakers together and sharing ideas. I plan to translate comments to other two langauges, what do you think, Kathy?
说的对。我有时检讨自己太过于注重工作了，而没有对儿子的教育下够功夫。是的，让孩子多读书，让他们参加体育俱乐部等都是好方法。
这个网站的一个重要目标是让说中文，英文和日文的父母发表各自的意见，大家能互相学习。我计划翻译大家的评语，Kathy, 你认为好吗？
2008年12月15日 星期一 at 05:48上午
http://www.uniqueparenting.com/time-management.html
http://www.uniqueparenting.com/time-management.html